There are several signs to look for if you think your husband may be cheating on you, but lets face it you know him better than anyone. We as women don’t need signs, we can sense it. I am not just talking to you as a private investigator but someone who has been there and done that. I am remarried now, and I should have met my husband three times before I met him, but I didn’t. That is how many times I drove in and out of the parking lot of a PI office. My advice to you is do it and get the closure, so that you can move on without guilt, or wondering.
Is He Cheating Signs
Have you noticed a:
Sudden increase in time away from home
Decreased sexual interest with you
Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming
Cheating husband or wife is often “unavailable” while at work
Cheating spouse attends new functions outside of work or not wants to go alone
Cell phone calls from you are not returned in timely fashion
Cheating spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone
Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly
Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual
Mileage on car is high yet he / she reports only short distance errands
Clothes smell of perfume or cologne
Cheating spouse gets his / her laundry done independently
Unexplained payments on bank statements
Cheating spouse has more cash on hand without accountability
Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration
Cheating spouse now has a phone card but never used one before
Cheating wife or husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse
Cheating spouse has suspicious phone voice-mail messages
Cheating spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed
Internet web browser history list (this is a record of web sites visited) contains unusual sites
Cheating spouse begins to use new or free e-mail account
Cheating spouse is suddenly deleting e-mail messages
I had a feeling that my ex was cheating on me, at the time I was not a private investigator, so I saw a sign for a PI in the community I lived in. Well, I drove in that parking lot three times, and changed my mind all three times; little did I know that this man was going to be my future husband and soulmate. Wow there is a happy ending before you even hear the whole story. I was always fascinated by PI and with my ex became and amateur one, but do not do that. If you gather the facts yourself, in many states it is not submissable in court, and you can be charged with stalking. Well, I am getting a bit ahead of myself. Let me tell you the signs of a cheating spouse.
Do not let him know you suspect. Do it right, protect, you, your assets, and your dignity. If you think that your husband is cheating on you, get all the facts, so you do not blow it if you are going to go to court. We have seen it happen, and you end up with nothing. Don’t tip your hand. Hire a Private Investigator, get the facts that you can present in court. One way or the other you will put your mind at ease you will get the facts that you need to for court, or you will find out that he is faithful, and going through some wacky phase. Nine times out of ten he is cheating and not going through a phase. If you discuss a case with a Private Investigator like us, it is totally confidential. He will never know you hired us, and will never know he was followed.
